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NLP之邪恶的门模型(转)


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*** The Door pattern originated by Alex Domnikov:
门模式是Alex Domnikov创立的

*** The Door is aimed at controlling her after you've started sleeping with her. Other patterns that you've used on her have anchored immense pleasure to you. The Door creates an anchor for the loss of that pleasure.
使用这个模式的目的是让你在TD之后能够控制她[让她深深地体会到自己不能没有你,失去你她的余生将变得很糟糕]。你使用在她身上的其他一些模式已经对你们锚定了巨大的乐趣。而门模式将制造一个失去这些乐趣的会产生什么感觉的心锚。

*** The ideal Setting for the power of the door is right after you've had intercourse and you're in bed with the girl.
想要催动门模式的魔力,得在你和她完成交合后,和她躺在床上的这段时间 [这时效果是最棒的]

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*** You're fooling around in bed, and you say,
你们正在床上逗乐,然后你说,

*** (you) "sweetheart, what's that over there?" (point towards the door).(你)“亲爱的,那是什么?”(指着前面的门说)

*** (her answer) "well you know, that's a door, silly."(她回答)“ 傻瓜,你明知道那是一扇门,还问”

*** (you) "yeah, you know... I'm a real positive person, but.. I mean, can you imagine.. I mean, you don't know what can happen from day to day, when you think about it in your mind. I mean, what would happen if I walked out that door and the door closed and as the door closed, it slammed shut, and no matter what you did, you could not open the door and you knew that you would never be able to look into my eyes again and you'd never be able to hear my voice again and you'd never be able to feel my touch again."
(你)“是的,你知道的…我真是一个积极的人,但..我的意思是,你能想象..我的意思是,你不知道以后会发生什么,如果你仔细想想就会明白。我的意思是,假如我一走出那扇门,门就关上了,门关上之后会发生什么?它砰地一声关上了,无论你做什么,你都没有办法打开这扇门,你知道你不能再次与我对视,你也不能再听到我的的声音,你再也不能感觉我的爱抚。”

*** (her answer) Ok, right here is where she starts going, "I don't like this door business at all."(她回答)“我根本就不喜欢与这门有关的一切事情”,好的,从这开始,她落入圈套了[成功地植入了心锚]

*** (you) And at this time you just reassure her.. "ok, alright sweetheart, you're right. You really shouldn't think about the door and you really don't have to think about the door."
(你)然后在这个时候你应该安抚她的情绪,让她安心..“好吧,亲爱的,你是对的,你真不应该去想这扇门的事,你确实不该考虑。”

*** So you go back to playing around with her some more. Have some more fun with her, bring her to another orgasm or whatever and say,说完之后,你继续与她逗乐。和她一起享受更多的乐趣,让她再次高潮或者别的什么都行,然后说

*** (you) "you know, a terrible thing happened the other day. My friend was hit by a truck. I mean, it was awful, by the time they got him to hospital he was dead. I can't believe it, you know? It's almost as if, it would be a horrible thing you know when you think about.." (point towards the door) "..that no matter even if you were to get that door opened and you were to search, that you could never find me again.."(你)“你知道,前几天发生了一件可怕的事。我的朋友被一辆卡车撞了。我的意思是,这太可怕了,他们刚把他送到医院的时候,他就已经死了。简直无法让人相信,你明白吗?就好像,你所知道的一件很可怕的事情,试想..”(指向那扇门)”..即便是你打开了这扇门去寻找,你却可能永远也找不到我了。”[重复心锚]

*** Then she starts freaking out. You calibrate more on that part of,
(you) "you will never be able to see me again, you'll never be able to hear my voice again."
她开始被吓坏你。这次你继续加深她的恐惧(你)“你不会再看到我,也不能再听见我的声音。”

*** (you) "You'll never be able.. all that fun we had together, all those great times we had together, walking along the beach, hand in hand in the moonlight, we would never be able to do those things again and even if you were to open that door, you would search and you could never find."
(你)“你再也不能…再也不能得到我们在一起时这些所有的乐趣,再也不能拥有一起渡过的美好时光,十指紧扣在月光的照耀下在沙滩上漫步,我们再也无法一起经历这些事情,即便是你打开了这扇门去寻找,你却再也找不回来[强化心锚]

*** (her answer) "no no I hate this door. Let's stop this door now, are you trying to upset me?"
(她回答)”不,不,我恨透了这扇门。不要再谈论这扇门了,你是不是想我伤心呀?”

*** (you) "oh, I'm sorry sweetheart, I'm just saying these are just things that are popping into my mind, ok?"(你)“噢,很抱歉,亲爱的,我只是把闪进我脑袋里的东西告诉你,好吧?”

*** So play around some more. Get her good and nice and hot again, fool around, have a good time with her, joke, and then then get back into the door and
继续与她逗乐。让她开心,快乐,再次点燃她的欲火,愚弄她,对她开玩笑,然后让注意力回到那扇门上

*** (you) "you know, God, still you know, about life's tragedies.. I mean, I just keep on thinking how.."
(你)“你知道的,上帝,你还知道,生活中的一些悲剧…我的意思是,我现在还是想..”

*** At this point you can already see that this is starting to make her feel uncomfortable. You want to create that sense in her that you can walk out and she'll feel terrible for the rest of here life. You want to anchor that response.
至此,你会发现她开始感到不安了。如果你想加剧她的这种感觉,你可以离开,这样她会感到你不在身边的日子会是很糟糕的。你得锚定这种响应。

*** Get up and she'll say, "well what are you doing?"
你一起来,她会说,“你去做什么?”

*** (you) "I'm going to the bathroom."
(你)“我去下卫生间。”

*** I go up to the bedroom door and slam it. That right there will freak her out. Then I'll open the door and我走向房门,并砰的一声把它关上。这会让她抓狂的。然后,我会再把门打开对她说

*** (you) "oh, I'm sorry. You know, I'm sorry, I'm just playing with this door again. You know, you really shouldn't think about this door now and you really don't want to think abou(丟雪网最全面的男性恋爱学院)t this door now."
(你)“噢,我很抱歉,希望你知道,我真的很抱歉,我又纠缠在这扇门上了。你知道,你现在真不应该去想这扇门,真的,你别去想。”[强调锚定]

*** Having anchored that sense of loss and pain to the door, you can trigger it whenever needed.
将失去和痛苦的感觉通过这扇门锚定之后,你可以在任何需要它的时候触发它。
*** Alex says: If he's talking on the phone and getting any crap from her, and he knows the relation of where the door is to her desk, he says, "sweetheart, could you please turn right and take a look at what's over there.." and that was the end of the bullshit."Alex说:当他和她通电话的时候,她说了一大堆废话[譬如她向你抱怨,向你分手等等让人烦心的事],他知道,她的办公桌附近有一扇门,他说,“亲爱的,你能不能冷静一下,看看这周围…”这样,她就不会再说废话了。

心锚成功锚定后,要有一个重复以加深,巩固的过程,否则,效果不大。
门模型指的不单单是门,你可以把它应用到任何你们常见的事物,甚至是精神上所共有的东西上。最好就是在TD的环境中所能看到,并且生活中比较普遍,容易发现的东西上,这样效果会非常显著。
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