*** The Door pattern originated by Alex Domnikov:
*** The Door is aimed at controlling her after you've started sleeping with her. Other patterns that you've used on her have anchored immense pleasure to you. The Door creates an anchor for the loss of that pleasure.
*** The ideal Setting for the power of the door is right after you've had intercourse and you're in bed with the girl.
*** You're fooling around in bed, and you say,你们正在床上逗乐，然后你说，
*** (you) "sweetheart, what's that over there?" (point towards the door).（你）“亲爱的，那是什么？”（指着前面的门说）
*** (her answer) "well you know, that's a door, silly."(她回答)“ 傻瓜，你明知道那是一扇门，还问”
*** (you) "yeah, you know... I'm a real positive person, but.. I mean, can you imagine.. I mean, you don't know what can happen from day to day, when you think about it in your mind. I mean, what would happen if I walked out that door and the door closed and as the door closed, it slammed shut, and no matter what you did, you could not open the door and you knew that you would never be able to look into my eyes again and you'd never be able to hear my voice again and you'd never be able to feel my touch again."
*** (her answer) Ok, right here is where she starts going, "I don't like this door business at all."（她回答）“我根本就不喜欢与这门有关的一切事情”，好的，从这开始，她落入圈套了[成功地植入了心锚]
*** (you) And at this time you just reassure her.. "ok, alright sweetheart, you're right. You really shouldn't think about the door and you really don't have to think about the door."
*** So you go back to playing around with her some more. Have some more fun with her, bring her to another orgasm or whatever and say,说完之后，你继续与她逗乐。和她一起享受更多的乐趣，让她再次高潮或者别的什么都行，然后说
*** (you) "you know, a terrible thing happened the other day. My friend was hit by a truck. I mean, it was awful, by the time they got him to hospital he was dead. I can't believe it, you know? It's almost as if, it would be a horrible thing you know when you think about.." (point towards the door) "..that no matter even if you were to get that door opened and you were to search, that you could never find me again.."（你）“你知道，前几天发生了一件可怕的事。我的朋友被一辆卡车撞了。我的意思是，这太可怕了，他们刚把他送到医院的时候，他就已经死了。简直无法让人相信，你明白吗？就好像，你所知道的一件很可怕的事情，试想..”（指向那扇门）”..即便是你打开了这扇门去寻找，你却可能永远也找不到我了。”[重复心锚]
*** Then she starts freaking out. You calibrate more on that part of,
(you) "you will never be able to see me again, you'll never be able to hear my voice again."她开始被吓坏你。这次你继续加深她的恐惧(你)“你不会再看到我，也不能再听见我的声音。”
*** (you) "You'll never be able.. all that fun we had together, all those great times we had together, walking along the beach, hand in hand in the moonlight, we would never be able to do those things again and even if you were to open that door, you would search and you could never find."
*** (her answer) "no no I hate this door. Let's stop this door now, are you trying to upset me?"
*** (you) "oh, I'm sorry sweetheart, I'm just saying these are just things that are popping into my mind, ok?"(你)“噢，很抱歉，亲爱的，我只是把闪进我脑袋里的东西告诉你，好吧？”
*** So play around some more. Get her good and nice and hot again, fool around, have a good time with her, joke, and then then get back into the door and继续与她逗乐。让她开心，快乐，再次点燃她的欲火，愚弄她，对她开玩笑，然后让注意力回到那扇门上
*** (you) "you know, God, still you know, about life's tragedies.. I mean, I just keep on thinking how.."
*** At this point you can already see that this is starting to make her feel uncomfortable. You want to create that sense in her that you can walk out and she'll feel terrible for the rest of here life. You want to anchor that response.
*** Get up and she'll say, "well what are you doing?"
*** (you) "I'm going to the bathroom."
*** I go up to the bedroom door and slam it. That right there will freak her out. Then I'll open the door and我走向房门，并砰的一声把它关上。这会让她抓狂的。然后，我会再把门打开对她说
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*** Having anchored that sense of loss and pain to the door, you can trigger it whenever needed.将失去和痛苦的感觉通过这扇门锚定之后，你可以在任何需要它的时候触发它。
*** Alex says: If he's talking on the phone and getting any crap from her, and he knows the relation of where the door is to her desk, he says, "sweetheart, could you please turn right and take a look at what's over there.." and that was the end of the bullshit."Alex说：当他和她通电话的时候，她说了一大堆废话［譬如她向你抱怨，向你分手等等让人烦心的事］，他知道，她的办公桌附近有一扇门，他说，“亲爱的，你能不能冷静一下，看看这周围…”这样，她就不会再说废话了。
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