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Milts发帖:
In all the lovesystemsmaterial I've read/heard the attraction switches listed are always thefollowing 8:
在所有爱情体系的资料里,我读过并且听到过的吸引力开关总是下面这8个:

health, wealth,humor, social intuition, pre-selection, status, confidence, challenge
健康、财富、幽默、社交直觉、预选、地位、自信、挑战

But I always hearabout 'Leader of men' and 'protector of loved ones. Why aren't these included?I know for a fact they are not in the RM2. Not sure about MB 1.5
Or do they fitinto the above 8 somewhere?
但是我总是听说过“雄性领袖”还有“爱人保护者”。为什么这些没有被包括呢?我知道因为某些原因,它们没写到惯例手册第二版里,但是不清楚为什么《灵丹妙药》1.5版里也没有。

Also what about aman's ability to cook or build/fix things or simply good looks? Or are theseones just socially conditioned attraction switches/individual girl preferencesrather than biological?
还有,比如说男人烧菜或者构建/修补东西的能力,还有长相呢?或者说这些只是在一定社会条件下的吸引力开关/某些女孩子的偏好,而不是所有生物的?

Savoy回复:
Great Set ofquestions.
很棒的问题

The 8 attractionswitches are -- if you see a beautiful woman and don't know anything about her-- your best bet for creating attraction.
8个吸引开关其实是 – 如果你看到一个漂亮的女孩子,但是不知道她的任何事情 – 这些开关是你构建吸引力的最好的选择。

Of course there areother things that are attractive. Some just aren't as important as these 8.Like putting the toilet seat down. Other things are very attractive, but notequally so to most beautiful women. The classic example there is intelligence -some women love intelligent men; for others, it does nothing or is even aturnoff.
理所当然还有其他的构建吸引力的东西。但有些不如这8个那么重要:比如把马桶垫放下。还有些非常有吸引力,但是不广泛适用于大多数美女。经典的例子就是智慧 – 有些女人喜欢有智慧的男人;但是有些,这对她们来说没什么用,甚至会让她们丧失兴趣。

Looks are coveredwithin health. Magic Bullets 2.0 renames that one "Health andAppearance".
长相包括在健康中了。《灵丹妙药》2.0版重命名了这一个,称之为“健康和外表”

Leader of men is partof status.
雄性领袖包含在地位中了。

Protector of lovedones is important to some women, not to others. It's like intelligence in thatway.
爱人保护者这个吸引力开关对有些女人来说很重要,但是对其他一些来说不是。就像上面所说的智慧的例子一样。
(Solievil注:这里其实后期万恶对这个吸引力开关提出过质疑,万恶认为“爱人保护者”根本不是一个吸引力开关,这是一个联系感开关,对此我表示非常认同。当然了一定要认为是吸引力开关也是可以的,因为在进化心理学中,吸引力开关和联系感开关是融合在一起的,没有严格的区分。)

You should onlyreally be worried about the attraction switches for the first 20 minutes or so.By then, you should know enough about her that you can be a bit more targeted.
你仅仅需要担心在最初的20分钟里如何用吸引力开关构建吸引。20分钟以后,你应该足够地了解她了,知道她具体的吸引力开关了。

bob24回复:
I have to disagree savoy, pre selection Leader of men and protectorof loved ones are three of the big four, along with confidence. Survival is themost primal human instinct, this specifically adresses it, and is what femalesare all about, based on evolutionary psychology. it directly relates to hersurvival, and having healthy children and there survival, at a basic level. Isit essential to have, no, but it is with any other attraction switch, everywomen wants it in different amounts, It is important to every women whetherthey conciously realize it or not.
我不同意Savoy的观点,预先、雄性领袖、爱人保护者是最重要的4大开关中的3个,还有一个是自信。生存是原始人的本能,这些是女人所关心的。这和她的生存,还有健康的孩子和孩子的生存紧密相关。这些是必须要有的特质,女人都在一定程度上喜欢有这些特质的男人,虽然程度不同,但这些对所有女人都非常重要,无论她们自己是否有意识到。

Savoy回复:
Alright, let's trythis one last (?) time. This is important.
好吧,我们最后一次(?)谈论一下这个。这个很重要。

There are 3 billionwomen in the world. They are all different and will all want different things.My friend Paula in college loved witty older intellectual cynical types. Myex-girlfriend's sister Amy was all about rugged individualistic self-sufficientoutdoorsy guys. Etc. There is no way you're going to know any of this beforeyou talk to her.
这个世界上有30亿女人。她们都是不同的,有不同的需求。我大学里的朋友Paula喜欢诙谐的年长的智慧的玩世不恭的Woody Allen之类的类型。我的前女友的妹妹Amy喜欢独立的热爱户外活动的类型。等等。你无法在和她交谈之间就知道这些。

So when you firstmeet a woman, say a couple minutes in, what qualities do you want her to knowabout you? If you talk about your love for camping, you've bored Paula. If youtalk about books you've read, Amy will start scanning the room for other guys.
所以,你第一次遇见一个女人的时候,在几分钟内,你喜欢向她展示你的什么特质呢?如果你告诉她你喜欢露营,这可能会让Paula觉得无聊。如果你谈论你看过的书籍,Amy可能会开始寻找房间里其他可以交谈的男人了。

Now, some of that isinevitable, and good. You're not trying to be all things to all women. You'renot even trying to be something you're not. You don't need to be. What you aretrying to do is to present yourself from the best angle. To show the aspects ofyour personality that are most attractive and relevant to her. Because shedoesn't have time to get to know you and all the other 5000 guys who haveapproached her in the past year. If you're good, you get a few minutes to giveher something to latch onto and feel attracted to you. What we'r(PUA学习尽在diuxue.com)e trying toavoid is situations where you HAVE qualities that interest her but she neverfinds out about them because you're too busy talking about useless shit.
有些是无法避免的,也还不错。你没有试着成为女人所想要的一切。你甚至没有试着装成你根本不是的那个人。你也不需要那样做。你需要做的是从最好的角度来呈现你自己。展示你性格的某个对她最有吸引力和她有关联的方面。因为她没有时间来了解你,还有去年搭讪她的那5000个男人。如果你不错,你能够赢得几分钟时间来让她被你吸引。我们这里要做的就是避免出现这样的情境,就是你身上确实有她喜欢的特质,但是因为你总是在谈论写无用的东西以致于她都没有发现你的那些特质。

So, enter theattraction switches from the Magic Bullets Handbook.
所以,运用《灵丹妙药》里学写的吸引力开关。

Attraction switchesare eight things that most beautiful women around the world tend to like.They're not the 8 most important characteristics a man can have to attractwomen. But they ARE your best bet for things to convey early on after meeting abeautiful woman. As different as they both are, both Amy and Paula notice a guywith social intelligence, humor, confidence, who is pre-selected, and so on. SOIf you met either of them in a bar, you wouldn't start with a shot in the darkabout your camping trip or your book club. You'd start with stuff thatattractive women usually tend to like which makes her interested in getting toknow you. Then you can see what other interests you might have in common(qualification and comfort).
8个吸引力开关是大多数美女所喜欢的。那些吸引力开关不是8个男人最吸引女人的特质。但是他们是你在最初遇到一个女人时可以呈现的最佳选项。虽然她们是不同的,但是Amy和Paula都会注意到一个有社交直觉、幽默、自信、被预先的男人。所以如果你在酒吧遇到她们中的任意一个,你不应该一开始什么都不知道的情况下就开始谈论露营或者你的读书俱乐部。你可以开始先谈论关于你的女人一般都会喜欢的东西。然后你了解了你们之间都有的兴趣(筛选和舒适感)

I hope this helps --it's an important concept so I don't mind answering questions about it.
希望对你有用 – 这是个重要的概念,所以我不介意回答这些问题。




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