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女性的“性指数”


Men everywhere have probably wondered for thousands of years: What turns women on?几千年来,世界各地的男性或许都有这样的疑惑:什么才能激起女性的欲望?

In the age of the Internet, it's possible to find out. And with countless genres of images, videos and erotic stories available online, women are both able and empowered to access arousing material, and figure out for themselves what they like. Some are watching porn, as our sex columnist Ian Kerner pointed out in a recent column.

互联网时代,使得我们有了一探究竟的可能。随着互联网的普及,各种题材的图片,视频和色清故事铺天盖地,女性们能够很容易的接近那些具有刺激性的题材资料,进而发现他们真正所喜欢的。一些女性正在观看者色清作品,性学专栏作家伊恩.克内在最近的一个专栏中指出这一现象。

But what women are viewing and reading is usually not what men are searching for, according to a new book on the subject. In "A Billion Wicked Thoughts," released Thursday, neuroscientists Ogi Ogas and Sai Gaddam combine web searches, personal search histories, websites, and classified ads with insights from brain science to discover precisely how different women are from men.

然而在星期三所发行的一本关于性题材的新书——《十亿个邪念》中,作者却表明,女性通过互联网所观看和浏览的信息通常不同于男性。这本书是由神经科学家OgiOgas 和Sai Gaddam合著而完成的,在书中,作者根据网络搜索,个人搜索历史,网站以及与大脑科学有关的分类广告进行分析精确的发现男性和女性到底有何差异。

Just like we're all born with taste cues - sweet, salty, savory, spicy, bitter - men and women's brains are wired with sexual cues, Ogas said. For men, the cues are predominantly visual, and aimed at the partner; they often enjoy seeing women orgasm, which may be one of the reasons why so many women fake. But women are more complex; they place a high importance on feeling desired, for example, whereas it appears men generally don't need to feel desired at all in order to feel aroused.

正如我们生来就具有着酸甜苦辣咸的味觉一样,男性和女性的大脑同样与性觉有着密切的联系,ogas 说道。对男性来说,这些感觉是显而易见的,其主要目标通常是异性伴侣,他们通常喜欢看到女性达到高潮,这或许也是为什么那么多的女性喜欢假装高潮的原因之一。然而女性的性感觉却更加复杂,她们更注重欲望,而似乎对大多数男性来说,他们并不需要任何刺激就能勾起自己的欲望。

"A woman wants to know that there’s going to be repeat action, that he’s committed and is going to be coming back," Ogas said.

“女性希望知道将会有不断的重复性的刺激动作,希望男性能够有所投入,并且再次重复之前的动作,”Ogas 说道。

Women are sexually complex in other important ways. If a man is physically turned on, he's also psychologically turned on, which is why medications for erectile dysfunction (i.e. Viagra) can deliver fairly straightforward results. But a woman can be physically turned on and mentally turned off at the very same time, making efforts toward a treatment for low female sexual desire all the more complicated. And as to what makes a woman go beyond mere arousal and have sex, you'll have to read this other article.
  女性在的其他重要的行为上也很复杂。如果男性在身体上的欲望被激起,他们在心里上的欲望同时也被激起,这就是为什么那么多的治疗勃起功能障碍的疗法会产生如此直接的效果的原因。然而一位女性在身体上的欲望被激起的同时,可能心里上的欲望却还未被激起。这使得努力治疗女性性欲低下变得更加复杂。至于是什么使得女性欲望被激起并进行性爱,你必须得阅读其他的文章。

 

The female sexual brain is also like a “detective agency” that investigates a man’s many qualities before deciding  whether he’s worth her attention, the authors said. (学PUA请关注diuxue.com)Evolutionarily, that makes sense. In the earliest days of humans, females who mated with the first males they encountered would not have fared as well as those who took the time to investigate their partners a little more. The "detective agency" would make sure that the chosen male would not be cruel, unfaithful or sneaky, would protect the woman and her child.
女性的性脑也如同一个侦探机构一样,她们在决定是否值得托付芳心之前,通常会调查男性的品质和才能,作者说道。这在进化上,是非常有意义的。在人类早期,与那些花费时间考察男性伴侣的女性相比,那些同她们第一次见到的男性交合的女性往往过的更糟糕 ,这些”侦查机构“会确保她们所选中的男性不会是残酷的,不忠的或者是卑鄙的,并且确保他们会保护自己和她的小孩。

More important than evolution, though, is the "software" of the sexual brain, Ogas and Gaddam said.
然而比进化更重要的是性脑中的那个“软件",Ogas 和Gaddam 说道

again,men are simple in sexual brain,any stimulus can trigger arousal. For some, a single cue is necessary and sufficient, which is what makes a fetish, well, a fetish. For instance, some men get turned on in the presence of attractive shoes or feet, and need to see that in order to feel stimulated. On the other hand, fetishes are extremely rare among women. The female brain usually doesn't respond to a single trigger every time; there can be lots of different combinations of things that can get them in the mood.




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